The Phelan Family

Golden Skate

2012-02-11T04:50:00.000-08:00

From the looks of things, this particular skating rink hasn't changed much since I attended school skate nights there...in elementary school. Yikes.

The PTA at Carter's school hosted a skate night at Golden Skate, and I figured the kids would have a good time. Since it was a work night for me, I didn't get to go, but it was fun hearing all about it from Carter the next morning.

He saw many friends and classmates and had a lot of fun!

I figured roller skating would be a lot easier than ice skating, but a certain someone didn't agree. The bruises that dotted his body didn't lie. Poor kid looked like he'd been in a bad bar fight! Hips, knees, elbows...nothing was spared!

Not the best quality of pictures - point and shoot camera coupled with dark interior, but you get the idea.

I always loved roller skating...something about those little brown skates with orange wheels. Takes me right back.

Again...falls didn't seem to keep him down. I love that he's falling with a smile!

Kennedy wasn't such a huge fan...she didn't really like the skates and I think she was pretty tired. Daddy bought her a glow stick and so she entertained herself with that.

Preschool Pajama Day

2012-02-10T02:51:00.000-08:00

It's the simple things really, like getting to wear your jammies to school.

Kennedy had PJ day at school a couple of weeks ago. It is always such a fun day for the kids...Miss Laura, Kennedy's wonderful teacher, pretended to be asleep when the kids entered the classroom. It was so funny to watch the confused expressions and to see how each reacted differently. Some 'hushed' the crowd, so that they wouldn't wake her up. Others wanted to poke or prod her awake. Kennedy was kind of scared and just hid behind my leg...a fun way to start the day.

For snack time the kids were served 'breakfast' by the parents.

Kennedy was thrilled that she got to eat 2 breakfasts that day! What a special treat.

I found these cute cherry pjs and just couldn't resist.

Oh how I wish my kids would smile naturally on command! Most of the time she looks frightened or grimaced...I just wanted to document the day.

"recess" time

playing with Lyla

Gumdrop Class

(Thanks to my friend, Shannon, for snapping a few pictures during gym time)

Brady is 1!

2012-02-09T23:58:00.000-08:00

Look at this little guy, such a sweet face and a mellow disposition to go along with it!

We helped celebrate Brady's 1st birthday with a little party and dinner at Grandma and Papa's house. It's hard to believe that an entire year has passed since this happy little boy joined our family...it just doesn't seem possible.

Cruising all around -
right on schedule, Brady is walking...and it's such a cute walk too, all toddle and pride :)

He didn't love his first try of cupcake the day before, so Val thought she'd try a little bit of ice cream instead of frosting...

Still not a fan.

We went with a monkey theme for Brady's gifts after I found this cute hat. A little backpack and lunch box to go with it and then some cool duds for his first trip to Cabo!

Brady is such a joy and is loved by us all!

Happy 1st birthday!

bowling fun

2012-02-09T14:17:00.000-08:00

I find myself playing catch up with our blog again...the days and weeks just zoom by and I find myself with a list of short little activities that I'd like to post.

A couple of weekends ago we met our friends, the Pikes, at Big Al's for a morning of bowling and games. If you live in the area, you really must take advantage of the cheap prices for early morning bowling - $2 per game and $2 shoe rentals. It makes for a fun morning that doesn't break the bank. I love Big Al's...it's new and clean and so much fun. The kids love it!

Carter and Brevin

Good job, Kennedy! All of the littles used bumpers, but Kennedy managed to produce the highest score (with a little help from the ramps but still...).

Daddy and Kennedy

Carter is so funny about wanting to use a big ball - I think he's bowling with a 10 pounder at this point. He so badly wants to be big and I just pray that he would realize how wonderful it is to be small!

Proud

update

2012-01-28T02:53:00.000-08:00

I thought January was supposed to be quiet and dull...things much needed after the busy holiday time.

Our month has been anything but boring!

Here's a quick look at what we've been up to:

Without intentionally trying, we've been getting rooms and closets organized. With so many new toys, it was necessary to go through closets and toy bins and donate things that the kids had outgrown. Carter cleaned his room and was so proud. He asked to take a picture with the new camera and I thought he did a very good job. His room has stayed tidy thanks to many Rubbermaid bins for Lego and Nerf gun storage. I should have taken a few pictures of the closets that we cleaned - it's amazing how much more space we have! It feels great to purge (we had documents that dated back to 2000!) and organize. And Mom, you'll be happy to know that our bedroom is completely clutter free, as well. I'm a terrible pack rat, and unfortunately the mess usually accumulates on our dresser tops! After several days of cleaning, our room looks wonderful and it's going to stay that way!

Besides cleaning, we've been busy this month with birthday parties, a sleepover with Papa & Grandma, play dates and skiing.

Kennedy has been letting me experiment with her hair...love these little knots on the side of her head.

She's such a ham for the camera.

Isn't she getting so big?

Since this blog is sort of a living history of our family, I thought it would be nice to write a little each of the littles.

Cuteness

But don't let that sweet smile fool you, Kennedy is one tough cookie. She is passionate and stubborn, strong willed and determined. She likes things on her terms. Always. She can be equally as sweet as she can be ornery, though. Often saying, out of now where, "Mama, I love you. I love you to the moon and back." and then there are the times that she's yelling "I don't love you! Any of you!" She's also used the word stupid on more than one occasion recently, which won her a mouth full of soap. She didn't seem fazed. Ah, what will we do with this one?

She is a girly girl - loving jewelry and pretty shoes. She loves pink and almost always chooses to wear a dress (secretly, this thrills me!)

She counts Lauren as her best friend, has fun playing with Lyla at school and enjoys making new friends, too.

She's not shy...unless it serves her purpose. She doesn't take compliments well, usually burying her head into my leg, but we're working on that.

She loves playing in her kitchen or with her new doll house. She's independent and can usually occupy herself for long stretches of time.

Coloring and crafting are her newest passions. It amazes me how much she enjoys it and how well she can stay in the lines. Yet another difference between boys and girls.
Kennedy has been enjoying gymnastics and swimming - doing great in both. She's been asking to take dance, as well, but I think we'll wait a few more months before starting anything new. She loves school and adores her teacher. She's spelling her name and recognizing K's in other words. Besides K and Y, she doesn't know her letters or numbers, but we're working on it. She just doesn't seem at all interested at this point.

Her laugh is contagious.

It can often be a roller coaster with Kennedy, but she adds spice and love to our family.

We love her dearly and thank God for blessing us.

A sweet smile
Carter is growing and changing so fast. He has taken off on his bike and rides every chance he gets. He's getting faster, stronger and more fearless as he gets more comfortable. I think this new skill has opened up a whole new world of freedom and adventure for him.

He's smart and loves to learn. We recently recorded a 60 Minutes broadcast about the great Masai Mara migration, elephants in Kenya and Jane Goodall's study of chimps. He loved it!

He can't get enough of books, either. We are currently reading the 48th book in the Magic Tree House series. They are great stories and he's really taken to them. We're hoping to start the Narnia series next.

School seems to be going better, as well. His favorite part of the day is always recess and he loves PE, but I also think he's doing well academically and making good friends. He seems well liked by his peers and likes his teacher, too.

He loves church and his friends there.

His current passions are: Lego's, Kung Fu Panda, skiing and bike riding.

He is doing wonderfully in swimming, as well, and recently passed the level that he had taken three times. He was very proud.

He is anxious to start baseball in a couple of months, but is a little sad that Daddy's won't be his coach.

Carter is a lover, doesn't like to be alone, can be wild and crazy with friends or sit for hours listening to a book. He's emotional and easily frustrated and we're working on controlling that a bit. He likes to get his way and definitely likes things just so. He has a hard time hearing the word "no." He's not a big fan of change, but I've seen improvements there, as well.

We are trying hard to instill in him a caring heart for others.

He's becoming quite helpful around the house and swells with pride when he knows he's been especially helpful.

I love my first born, love his spunk and curiosity. Love his smile and hugs. This kid is going places and I can't wait to see what God has planned for his life.

And another lost tooth.

#2 fell out and his permanent tooth is already coming in

This is how I often find Carter in the mornings. He's good about staying in his room until 6:00 and with all of his new Lego's, he's been staying even later. He loves having a completed project!

Snow Day

2012-01-22T10:11:00.000-08:00

We woke up to snow on Wednesday morning and with no school to rush off to, we were able to head out and enjoy it after breakfast. Unfortunately, by 7:00, it had already warmed up considerably and was raining. The kids didn't seem to mind and had a blast. I wish it would have stayed white and stuck around a bit longer.

Carter and Kennedy made a little snow seat. I think it was supposed to be the bottom of a snowman, but this is as far as they got!

Can you tell how wet it was already? There was more slush than snow.

Jake got in on the action and was running up and down the street, flinging snow with his nose.

Clearly we need to get Kennedy some new mittens...kind of hard to build snow balls when your gloves are dangling of your hands!

My little snow bunny

Soaking wet but loving every minute of it!

Special Day

2012-01-22T10:01:00.000-08:00

Last weekend, Kennedy was treated to a special day at Build a Bear with Auntie Val. For Christmas, she was given a gift certificate and had been asking about it ever since. I finally had to hide the little card, hoping for "out of sight, out of mind" to kick it. It worked...a little, but she was still so excited for this special day. We had never been to Build a Bear before, and she had a wonderful time! Although, now both kids want to go back. And soon. Maybe for a birthday treat.

With her prized "stuffie" - she was so excited to show us what she had created!

Helping "stuff" her (bright pink!) kitty cat

A little TLC at the grooming station

I guess choosing Kitty's outfit took a lot of thought. They had to lay all four choices out and then make a decision. A pink ballet satin outfit was the winner :) With a pink headband. And pink sparkly purse.

Sharing a chocolate milkshake with Kitty

She takes this cat with her everywhere she goes...what a fun and special day, thank you Auntie!

And while Kennedy and Auntie were out enjoying the afternoon, we got to spend time with this sweet little boy. Brady is such a good baby - he was entertained by Carter, was cruising all around and was fascinated by what I was doing in the kitchen. It was such a fun day for all of us!

2 wheel ridin'

2012-01-20T06:30:00.000-08:00

My boy's a bike rider!

2012 is off to an exciting start for Carter. He seems to be tackling new things with gusto...gone is any fear and in it's place is a sure footed confidence and adventurous streak.

We have been encouraging a bike ride sans training wheels for quite some time. Kyle had even taken them off a few times over the summer, but Carter would literally be paralyzed with fear and wouldn't even attempt to ride. It made me sad. It's hard to see such a real fear in your child's eyes. But, just like everything else, when it was on his terms, he took off and conquered his fear. This little one is full of surprises recently.

I am so proud of him!

Can you see the look of concentration on his face? He was so excited to have me outside watching him and taking pictures, but he didn't want to loose focus.

Again...concentrating hard!

There's a little smile...

His pride is almost tangible through this picture.

So proud of my little man!

It's been two weeks since he mastered his bike and each day he's gone out on a quick ride or two down the street. He's thrilled by the prospect of going on bike rides and can hardly wait for the weather to improve. It's amazing how quickly he's become proficient, as well. The first several days he could only go down the slight hill of our street, no turning, etc. He's now riding up, down and all around.

Way to go, Carter!

Happy (half) Birthday!

2012-01-18T14:40:00.000-08:00

A summer birthday can be both a blessing and a curse...I can say this with some amount of authority, since I, too, have a birthday in July. Since school won't be in session on July 9th, Kennedy got to celebrate her "half" birthday last Monday. She picked out special treats to share with her friends (ice cream cups in January, brrr!), wore a pink tutu to school, received a pretty pink crown upon arrival to class, got to do all the classroom jobs and got a sweet little gift from her teacher.

It was a special day and Kennedy was so excited to be 3 1/2!

{goals}

2012-01-13T03:31:00.000-08:00

I've never been one for starting the new year with lofty resolutions. It's like setting myself up for failure. I could never diet, don't enjoy exercising enough and will probably never keep my room as clean as it should be...so, this year I'm going to make a few {goals}, measurable and hopefully obtainable. And by writing them here for others to see, hopefully I'll feel more accountable, as well. I read in a magazine once that resolutions should be quantifiable, not general. Alas, my written goals for 2012 won't include "be more patient," or "be a better mom, wife, friend, etc.", although these are things that I pray for each day. Instead I've come up with a few things that I really hope to accomplish this year and can report back on when I do. How's that for positive thinking?

Goal #1 : Save more, spend less. More specifically, I am going to attempt going on a spending fast...nothing too dramatic, my children do need clothes of course, but I am not going to buy anything new for myself for the next six months. No shirts, no shoes, no belts or bathing suits. This is going to hurt. My finish line will be the sale of all sales, the Nordstrom Anniversary sale in July, just in time for a little birthday shopping spree :) For those of you who know me at all, you know this is a fairly lofty goal. I'm not much of a saver and I love to shop. But there are things we want to do and I know beefing up the savings account will help our family achieve some of these.

Goal #1 b: Contribute more to my 401K. This is one area of savings where I used to excel at...saving the maximum percentage allowed from the time I was 22. However, once I stopped working this account stopped growing. So, in 2012 I am going to increase the amount that goes into my retirement fund. I'd like to enjoy my old age...preferably on a beach somewhere exotic, or at a vineyard in France. What can I say, I am a dreamer.

Goal #2 : Read a book a month. Behind shopping, reading is probably my most favorite past time. I love loosing myself in a good book, exploring a new world and getting to know new characters. Since having children, my free time has been reduced and reading for pleasure is one of the things that has suffered the most. I've picked it up again in the last several months and have loved every minute of it. Hopefully with this goal, I'll be more intentional about my free time.

Goal # 3 : Read the bible. I've never actually read the bible in its entirety and I'd really like to.

Goal # 4 : Take the kids to Disneyland. Is it cheating if this goal is already in the works? I think I've been planning this trip in my mind since the day Carter was born. Kyle has made me wait, insisting everyone will have a better time if the kids are a little older. I know he's right. But this is the year, and we are all so excited. Working to make our October trip to the "Happiest Place on Earth" the best it can be is definitely a priority!

Goal #5 : Bake a cake from scratch. Frosting too.

Well, I think that should do it. I may be over reaching a bit, but I'm feeling good about my chances.

Happy New Year!

2012-01-11T18:48:00.000-08:00

Welcoming in 2012...it's amazing that I can so clearly remember ushering in this new millennium. I can remember where Kyle and I were (our first New Year's Eve as a couple), who we were celebrating with and even what I was wearing. Funny. Funny how we are now welcoming 2012 together and funny how very different our lives are now. A lot has changed in these 12 years!

We were thankful to be able to keep up our New Year's Eve tradition with the Vanevenhovens. This was our sixth year, although we've been flexible and twice have had to celebrate after the fact due to sick kids or work schedules. It's always a fun time - Kirstin and Tim are two of our dearest friends and they know how to have good time! I wish I could keep up!

As per tradition, we tried out a new restaurant and had a wonderful meal together. This year was the Woodsman Tavern in SE. Great food and a wait staff that looked like they starred in the show Portlandia. Our little waiter made me smile with his cute suspenders and funky shoes. And readers, you would have been proud of me, I ate and LOVED a dish that was served with the whole fish. Eyes. Scales. Tail. Yikes. I knew it going in and was better prepared because of it, but I still was proud that I ate it so easily. And it was delicious. I wish so much I would have taken its picture, though. You would have been even more impressed, I'm sure.

My dear friend, Kirstin. Isn't she beautiful? Just a few of the many things that I love about this girl: she is always so fashionable and trendy (she had on the most beautiful coat I had ever seen or felt!), knows all the best places to go for food, drink and fun, has great taste in music and knows every lyric to every song (or so it seems), can function beautifully on no sleep (and I know how hard this can be), follows her dreams and makes them happen, never wants to miss out on a good time, and best of all she is a loyal and loving friend.

Tim, Kirstin, me and Kyle

Cheers to a great night and even better friends!

Hittin' the slopes

2012-01-06T02:52:00.000-08:00

On New Year's Eve day we headed up to Mt. Hood to introduce Carter to the world of skiing. And he loved it! I couldn't be more proud of him or happier that he enjoyed his first time on skis. We signed him up for a half day lesson and he was with an instructor, Sabina, and only one other child, also a first timer. They have a great learning center at Meadows, so I felt very confident dropping him off. This also allowed Kyle and I a chance to get in several runs (we hadn't been skiing since before Carter was born, and it was wonderful to be back at it!)

It was so fun getting to watch Carter in his lesson. We dropped by, took a ton of pictures and then were off again. We didn't want to be a distraction and we also wanted to enjoy the amazing snow. It had snowed all week and the mountain had about 10 inches of new snow over night. The sun was shining and the runs were awesome!

They start them out on one ski, gliding down a gentle slope. They try each leg and then were off!

Looking good, Carter Man!

He did so great!

They stayed on the Magic Carpet area (such an improvement from the rope tow that I learned on when I was Carter's age) and it was perfect for beginners.

It's like he knows just what he's doing...I think the hardest part for Carter was getting up once he'd fallen down. He didn't mind falling, wasn't scared and had a great attitude.

I had to chuckle...he skis just like I do - heads straight down and loves to go fast. I can vividly remember my dad trying to get me to make big, wide turns as I'd barrel down the slopes, calling from atop the chair lift "LEFT, RIGHT, LEFT" and I'd just zoom straight down. Carter did exactly the same thing! Since we were on a smaller slope, he wasn't able to pick up a ton of speed, but I'd try to get him to turn through the cones and he'd say "but I love going fast!" Really? He's never short on surprises!

Once we picked him up from his lesson and ate a quick lunch, we headed back out to the beginners area. He was bummed that he couldn't go straight to the chair lift and really wanted to go up the "big" mountain. He didn't believe us when we told him he was actually on the mountain...he wanted to go to the top! Although after skiing with him for a couple of hours, I was even more thankful for his lesson. I've been skiing for most of my life, but trying to teach a little guy how to do something that seems so instinctual was hard. At least for the next several times we go up, we'll get him into lessons.

Daddy joined us for a bit, too. By this point (I'd been up all night working), I was pretty beat, so Kyle continued to ski while I stayed on the bunny slopes with Carter. Worked out great for everyone!

Our little skier

Kennedy and Nana came up with us and enjoyed lots of time in the snow and a little time in the lodge too. My mom was such a trooper...we knew she was cold and probably would not have chosen to spend her day on a mountain, but she made it so much fun for Kennedy. Pulling her on the sled, making snow angles and just keeping her entertained. It was such a blessing to have her with us, and I honestly think Kennedy had as much fun as Carter. We'll get her on skis next year, so watch out!

Thankfully it was a beautiful day on the mountain - Kennedy had a blast in the snow!

Snack time

We got stuck in horrible traffic on the way home and ended up turning around and driving around to Hood River. It still took us 3+ hours, but we got home with enough time to get ready for our NYE plans with friends. Not the best way to end a great day, but we managed.

an adventure of sorts

2012-01-04T08:42:00.000-08:00

We had originally planned to head up to Mt. Hood the day after Christmas and take Carter skiing for the first time. But after thinking more about it and realizing that everyone was overly tired from a fun, but very busy, weekend of celebration, we decided to have some fun a little closer to home.

So...we went ice skating!

Kennedy definitely looked the part, although I wasn't as prepared as I should have been. Just a word of advice for anyone taking their children ice skating - hats and gloves would definitely be a good idea!

Ready to give it a try...

To be honest, neither Kyle nor I had huge hopes for how the morning would go. I figured we'd get out on the ice for 10 or 15 minutes, the kids would fall a few times and be done with the whole thing. I couldn't have been more wrong. They loved it! Especially Carter. He did such a good job and was skating independently and didn't want to leave. He skated the full two hours and probably would have gone even longer.

Balance on ice is a bit tricky but with help from Mom and Dad, it sure is fun!

Two hands are better than one

After a few trips around the rink and sore backs for Kyle and I, we discovered these little plastic chairs that the kids could use to help with balance. They were great!

Carter took off! He'd fall, laugh and get right back up. I was so proud of him, his effort and attitude.

Way to go!

Christmas Day 2011

2012-01-03T14:40:00.000-08:00

The stockings were hung, presents placed and our little ones tucked into bed. We were all anxious for Christmas morning...

I tried desperately to capture their reactions as they walked downstairs...can't you almost feel the excitement and anticipation?

Stockings were first

Usually my very favorite in the way of gifts. I love little things and think it's so much fun to challenge myself to find meaningful gifts that will fit in a stocking. Of course, there's the usual socks and underwear but more often than not there are a few very special items, as well.

Kennedy got a cute new bunny hat - although it's on backwards here :)

A quick picture before we dig into the gifts under the tree.

Mommy and Daddy needed a quick cup of coffee!

Santa granted her request and brought the green princess, Tiana. She loved it!

Merry Christmas, sweet Kennedy!

Who would have known? The most excited Carter got was for his new Oregon boots and duck pillow pet. Funny stuff.

After opening presents from Santa and Mom & Dad, we had our traditional delicious breakfast of cinnamon rolls and fruit. So good! Then we freshened up and headed off to Christmas morning service at church. I loved the opportunity to attend church on Christmas morning. In between the craziness of material presents, it was a blessing to be reminded of the true gift of Christmas...to sing carols and pray and give thanks for God's greatest gift - His son, Jesus Christ. Since Christmas fell on a Sunday this year, our church had one, casual service where the kids were able to participate. They all arrived in pajamas and were able to sit up at the front of the sanctuary for the majority of the service. Carter and Kennedy loved it and I couldn't believe how much Kennedy talked - we could hear her all the way towards the back. She even sang "Away in a Manger", by herself, without any prompting...and not at the most appropriate time. It was hilarious! We received comments from a few folks after church that it was the most they'd ever heard her talk...must have been the excitement of Christmas!

Nana and Pops arrived around lunch time and the kids were so excited to see them.

Another round of presents followed...

Carter got a Razor and it was a big deal!

It was Christmas, after all, a few laps around the house on his new gift seemed appropriate.

Some new shades

Ah the pillow pets - who knew these would be such a big hit? Kennedy cried when Carter opened his, because she was so devastated not to have one too. It took a minute for her to open her last gift...

And then all was right in the world again!

We hosted dinner on Christmas and it went so well. I loved having a home full of family, love, laughter and crazy kiddos. It's exactly as Christmas should be, at least in my mind. I feel so blessed to have a large family on Kyle's side - holidays are always more fun and lively with lots of family to share with.

Nana and Pops with Kennedy and Carer

The girls

Kennedy and Sloane

The boys

Bennett, Carter and Brady

Papa and Grandma and the "five" - it was impossible to get a picture where everyone was looking. This was the best we could do!

Enjoying Kennedy's new ladybug umbrella with Papa and B

Another attempt at a pj picture with all five cousins.

Afraid it just wasn't meant to be this year!

Four out of five isn't so bad, right?

And the night ended with a little Kung Fu...

~Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night ~

Christmas Eve 2011

2012-01-02T09:37:00.000-08:00

Christmas Eve 2011

I've always loved Christmas Eve...growing up our family celebrated just as much on Christmas Eve as we did on Christmas Day. I have tried my best to carry on that tradition. For the past few years, we've hosted Christmas Eve at our house after attending church. But this year, it worked out best to head to Kyle's parents and spend the evening there. My parents didn't arrive until Christmas morning, so I offered to host Christmas dinner instead. It really worked out well - I felt like it was the best Christmas yet! I missed going to church, but it was such a fun time. Relaxed, great company, a delicious crab dinner, presents for the kids and then home for bed in anticipation of Santa.

A few quick photos before we left for Grandma and Papa's house.

A Christmas miracle - both kids smiling real smiles and looking at the camera.

We set up the camera on the dining room table and tried to take a family shot in front of the tree. I had to include it, because it just makes me smile. I couldn't coach the kids, since I wasn't behind the camera, and this is what we got.

Brady's first Christmas

Carter and Kennedy opening up a few gifts from Auntie Val, Mark and Brady. They had to leave to attend a family celebration of Mark's, but we were thankful to see them for a bit.

Two miracles in one day - amazing!

Our family, feeling blessed on Christmas!

Grandma and Papa and the kids

A few more gifts after dinner

Pajama time - Kennendy, Carter and Bennett

I purchased matching pj's for all of the cousins this year and love how cute they all looked. We were able to take a few more on Christmas day when Brady was with us.

Sweetness

How cute are these little elves?!?!

Checking Santa's location on Uncle Justin's iphone. It was so fun, the first time that they checked, earlier in the evening, Santa was in Senegal. We sponser a child, Daba, through World Vision, and she lives in a small village in Senegal, so the kids knew just where Santa was. They were thrilled to know that Santa would be visiting Daba's house that night, too.

The kids both fell asleep on the way home, so we didn't even leave cookies for Santa. I felt terrible when I realized it, although the kids didn't seem too concerned. I'll have to make a better list for next year so that I don't forget these little details :)

And this is how we end almost every Christmas Eve...Kyle having to assemble some giant gift with about a thousand pieces. I hadn't slept in over 24 hours, so I went to bed and my sweet husband stayed up for another three hours putting together Kennedy's new doll house. What a dad!

Twas the week before Christmas

2012-01-01T08:18:00.000-08:00

'Twas the week before Christmas and all through the land,

people were busy preparing for all holiday plans.

Our house was no exception, as you can see,

We were busy with friends, family and being merry.

On Monday, Kyle's Aunt Peg hosted all the ladies and kids for a nice lunch at her house. The kids enjoyed playing together and I enjoyed the opportunity to catch up with my SILs. It was a great way to kick off our week!

We've been busy...

Some of my dearest college girlfriends were able to travel for a fun day of catch-up and chaos. With 10 kids all under the age of 7, it was a lively house full. But I wouldn't trade those moments for anything - it was wonderful to be together, sharing life experiences, connecting, empathizing and just enjoying our friendship. After a few hours, we put in a movie and were actually able to finish several conversations. The kids all had a fantastic time - it's so sweet to see how quickly little ones can "make friends."
Aren't they just the cutest bunch of littles? Such sweetness, too.

Mamas and their babes

Andrea with Brock (6) and Reagan (3), Sarah with Jackson (7), Chase (5), Julia (2) and baby West (2 months), me with Carter (5) and Kennedy (3) and Ali with Emi (5), Luke (2) and baby boy on the way! And think we were missing half our group this year, due to our last minute planning. Can you imagine how this picture would have looked with 7 more?

Carter and Chase
These two took to one another quite quickly and enjoyed playing all things boys. I promise Chase was having fun, this was his worried movie watching face :)

Carter, Alessia, Kennedy, Sienna and Ava

On Wednesday, my childhood friend Jackie came to visit with her husband and three precious girls. They are here visiting from Australia for the month, so I was actually able to sneak in a second visit with her after Christmas. I always love our time together...she's the type of friend who we can go months and months and months (which we do since she lives half way around the world now) without seeing one another, but we just pick right up. We could talk for hours without running out of topics. She is a wonderful person, a great mom and such a treasured friend.

I think we managed to squeeze in eight play dates, one speech therapy appointment, many Christmas treat deliveries to friends and neighbors and a lot of fun!

Preschool Program

2011-12-29T08:30:00.000-08:00

Kennedy had her first preschool program in mid-December. It was on their last day of school before Christmas break, and she was so excited to perform. I love preschool and seeing little ones up on stage performing at all different levels is always a good hour of entertainment. Kennedy had been practicing her songs for a couple of weeks, but I wasn't overly confident that she'd actually make it up on stage. You just never know with this girl...

A quick photo shoot before we headed off to school.

My little fashionista

Please pardon the disarray in the background - I believe those are some remnants of our holiday decorating!

I love how this picture captures so many of Kennedy's traits. When she is nervous, she tends to pick at her fingers. No smiles, just wide eyes taking in her surroundings. It must be overwhelming for a three year old to walk down the main aisle of the sanctuary and see a sea of faces that she doesn't know.

Song time

The Gumball class sang "There was a Little Baby" and "Christmas Morning", then the whole school got together and sang "Away in a Manger" (which we've now heard at least a hundred times since :)

Kennedy sang quietly through most of the songs but did do the hand motions and dancing. Overall, I was very proud of my little one.

To cap off the fun afternoon, we had cookies in the Fellowship hall. Yummy!

Christmas Crafting

2011-12-28T10:11:00.000-08:00

Another one of the fun things about the holiday season is all of the opportunities to craft...whether it be preschool snacks, gifts for friends or our gingerbread house, I am always on the look out for creative things to do with (or for) the kids. I've recently discovered pinterest and it is a fabulous resource for all things crafty! I found several cute, and mostly simple, ideas there this year.

Snowman snacks for Kennedy's preschool class

My first attempt at homemade play dough - FAIL! I had found a great idea for candy cane play dough and wanted to make it for Kennedy's preschool friends. My first batch was horrible, but I learned from my mistakes and ended up making two more decent batches. The end result wasn't quite what I had hoped, but I think the kids probably enjoyed them, which is what's important.

I give myself an "A" for effort. Kennedy helped me choose the fabric and cut out the circles, so I felt like she contributed to the making of her gifts, as well.

We put off making our gingerbread house for a couple of weeks, so that we could make it as a family. It's always a fun activity for the kids and this year they got very creative and the finished product was quite lovely.

Constructing our house

Phelan Gingerbread House 2011

Another fun little craft kit that I picked up was this Nativity set which the kids got to put together. Carter constructed most of it, but we all helped. It sat on a side table and provided lots of entertainment for Kennedy throughout the month. She loved telling the story of Jesus' birth and moving the people around as she did. Very sweet.

It's like looking in the mirror...

2011-12-23T04:36:00.000-08:00

It's always up for debate - who do the kids look like? Some say Carter takes after me, although I've never been able to see it. In fact, I don't think that either one of my children look much like me at all. BUT, in personality I often see traits that so obviously come from me that it's a little scary. And I see it most often in this little man...

He loves to read and learn, if you ask him he's always right and he loves to be in charge and dictate the flow of activities. He's sensitive and dramatic, irrational at times of stress and cannot make a decision to save his life! It's funny how the similarities in people often cause us the most distress.

Case in point - at the end of October, Kyle was travelling and Carter had received green dots every day that month at school (it's a way of tracking behavior and green is good!), so I said that we could go out to dinner and he could choose any restaurant that he wanted. I thought he'd choose Red Robin, Chuck E Cheese or some equally kid friendly establishment. Not so much, he toyed with the idea of McDonalds (blech!) or Burger King, because those are places that Mom won't normally take him. He proceeded to throw out just about every restaurant in our local area and STILL could not make up his mind. FOUR hours later and I'm circling around as he waffles back and forth. It was maddening to say the least (although I struggle with simple decisions like these on a near daily basis). After making our way to an area of town that has a multitude of choices, I laid down the law and insisted he make a choice. By this point, we were all quite hungry. Choice made, Stardust Diner, a 50's style diner where he could get a hamburger and milk shake. We order (after waffling over the menu for a time - both him and me - Kennedy on the other hand, always knows just what she wants!) and the waitress goes to make the kids' shake...chocolate was ordered and after delivery Carter says, "I should have chosen strawberry!" Really, it was like looking at a miniature version of myself from across the table. I second guess decisions too, and now I realize how frustrating that must be for the people around me. All in all it was a fine evening, and we left with full bellies and pride for a month of good behavior. It was just another example of how very alike a child can be to his/her parent.

Carter is his own little person and I can only pray that he learns to use the good qualities he has inherited from his parents and overcome the bad ones :)

Zoo Lights

2011-12-17T15:34:00.000-08:00

We were fortunate enough to have a fun night at the zoo with Auntie Val, Uncle Mark and Brady - it was cold but dry and we all enjoyed the festive lights. Poor Kennedy was fighting a stomach bug (worse than we knew), but I think she managed to have a little fun too.

Cousins!

The train ride is always a highlight of the night. We went on a Wednesday night and got their rather early, so we didn't have to contend with lines or crowds. It was great!

Mommy and Carter

Daddy and Kennedy

Our sweet nephew, Brady. He was all bundled up (a la The Christmas Story) and could barely move, but he was a trooper. Such a mellow and happy boy. Sweetness.

North Pole Breakfast

2011-12-13T19:55:00.000-08:00

I found this fun idea for a North Pole Breakfast on a blog that I've recently discovered and knew that I had to attempt one for the kids this year. Check out the blog here. I thought it would be a special way to welcome our elf, Frisbee, back for December. It was put together quite quickly, so there were several details that I wasn't able to perfect, but overall I was pleased with how it turned out.

The kids had a wonderful time and seemed to enjoy the novelty of donuts, candy covered pretzels and hot chocolate for breakfast.

Frisbee is back...he's watching and reporting back to Santa. Trust me, he's already come in handy a few times. A great way to curb bad behavior!

I set the table the night before, so I didn't have much to do in the morning. Since our kids get up so early, I knew I didn't want to be preparing things then.

My mom gave me these beautiful ornaments this year, so I hung them from the light above the table for decoration.

I found little place settings for each of them and used those to spruce up the table.

Before they could dig in or open their gifts (much to Carter's dismay), we read the letter that Frisbee had written them.

They each got their annual ornament and a new Christmas book. The Polar Express for Carter and Fancy Nancy for Kennedy.

Oh, and if you're wondering why Kennedy is wearing a hat indoors, it's because she had slept with it that night. She discovered it in the back of a drawer while choosing pajamas and insisted that it be worn to sleep. Ok then.

An Oregon Duck ornament - Carter was in heaven!

Finally, let's eat!

Kennedy was excited to see a place card with her name on it!

A true breakfast of champions

Snowballs (mini powdered donuts), snowflakes (covered pretzels with sprinkles) and Christmas shaped pancakes. Oh and a banana so that I didn't feel completely hypocritical!

Overall, I think the morning was a success. I had a lot of fun putting everything together and I think the kids really enjoyed it, as well. Definitely will need to do this again next year.

And this is my 200th post! Wow.
I started this blog almost 4 years ago and love to go back and read old posts. My hope is to turn it into a book so that Carter and Kennedy will have it when they are older. I think it's a great way to document our life as a family and wish that I had written memories like this from my childhood. (Especially since I have a terrible time remembering things!) I know that I cherish these times and am thankful for the opportunity to share them.

A visit with Santa

2011-12-12T06:17:00.000-08:00

Santaland 2011

As most people know, I love traditions and am not a huge fan of change. I find comfort in knowing what is coming and what to expect. With that being said, it may be easier to understand why I was disappointed in this years trip to Santaland. Since Carter was an infant, we have gone to visit Santa at the downtown Macy's. I was always impressed by the quality of the props and the authenticity of the Jolly one himself. (We had seen the same Santa for the past three years) This year, Macy's switched everything and the result was definitely not as good. Thankfully the kids didn't seem to mind, but we may head back downtown later this week to visit Santa Ted at Pioneer Square (our Santa has moved!)

One thing that was definitely an improvement from last year...Kennedy wasn't screaming. Hooray for progress!

I was trying to get pictures before we got in line, but they were just too excited!

Carter went right up, without hesitation. He knows what he needs to do. It was quite the process to decide what he wanted this year. We had to veto a few requests (an Ipod Touch, really?!? You are 5!) but he finally settled on a Nerf gun. I have mixed feelings and serious reservations, but his desire ran deep. We'll just have to establish some ground rules with that particular gift.

Kennedy and Ethan on the old monorail train

Carrie & Ethan and Kirstin, Tim & Lillian joined us for our visit. I count the day as a huge success, because all four kids posed without tears. It was a fun way to spend the morning together.

After our visit, the kids wrote Santa their wishes...

And then sent them off to the North Pole
Merry Christmas!

o' Christmas tree, o' Christmas tree

2011-12-08T17:06:00.000-08:00

Leave it to us to choose the one rainy Sunday of the month to pick out our Christmas tree. We've had a lovely string of sunny, cold, crisp days so far this holiday season but we had a plan and we stuck to it. When we left for church that morning, telling the kids that we would head out to the tree farm after, the weather was fine. By the time we left church, the rains had started! By the end of it, it was torrential! It was miserable...mainly for Kyle, as he was the one on the ground sawing through the mammoth trunk of the tree we had chosen. We managed to snap a few pictures and then the kids and I jumped back into the truck. Yet another example of the love that my sweet husband has for his family - I'm not so sure I would have laid down in the mud to cut down the perfect tree! Thanks, honey!

Quick - get a picture!

When we first arrived, it wasn't pouring yet, so the kids and I helped hunt for the perfect tree. And we found it! It is huge and beautiful...so big that Kyle needed to take off over two feet so that it would fit in the living room.

Kennedy didn't seem to mind the rain

Poor Kyle. He wasn't prepared for the rain, so he didn't even have a hood. He was soaked! And covered in pine needles. What a trooper.

We had dinner plans the night we got our tree, so we left it outside to dry off a bit and then decorated it on Monday evening. Kennedy has gymnastics on Mondays, hence the tutu. We were playing Josh Grobin Christmas songs (doesn't he have the most amazing voice? I could listen to him all day!) and she was performing for us.

Not one to be left out

Our good dog, Jake. Getting older but still an active participant!

Carter-man

The bottom of the tree was a little ornament heavy, but we were able to guide the kids a bit and encouraged them to spread them out a little. Overall, I think we have a great looking tree!

The kids loved helping!

The Advent Season

2011-12-06T14:16:00.000-08:00

All too frequently the real meaning of Christmas gets lost in the business of the holiday season. We have really tried to put the focus on the coming of Christ, celebrating Advent. It's so easy for children (and some adults too) to be consumed with thoughts of gifts and their wants. Kyle and I hope to instill in the kids that they are fortunate and blessed and that it is an honor to help those less fortunate.

Our church has a great event on the first Sunday of Advent each year. We gather together, make Advent wreaths for home and then get a chance to dress up and recreate the manger scene. Last year, Kennedy refused to be a part of things, so I was pleased that she wanted to dress up. I was hoping for an angel, but I do believe she makes a very darling little cow! Carter chose a Wiseman costume, and Kyle and I were Mary and Joseph.

Merry Christmas!

Before church, I had to snap a quick picture of the kids. I felt okay putting them in some of their holiday clothes, since it was technically the start of the Christmas season.

Carter loved clipping branches and greenery for our wreath. Once he was finished with cutting, though, he was pretty disengaged from the rest of the activity.

Finished product

I was proud of Kyle and the kids for making a beautiful wreath for our table. I was upstairs and didn't get to help this year, but they did a wonderful job.

And what would an event be without a little silliness?

Enjoying some yummy snacks and fellowship

Cuteness

Thanksgiving in Boise

2011-12-05T19:47:00.000-08:00

In all of the years that Kyle and I have been married, we have never travelled for Thanksgiving. Kyle had always worked on Friday, so travelling wasn't really an option. This year was different and we decided to make a trip east to Boise to visit my grandmother. She had taken a few falls in the last month or so, and we thought it was important to make an effort to see her. It ended up being a very enjoyable couple of days, and I was pleasantly surprised at how well the kids did with the drive.

Here we are all loaded up. I had to laugh at the quantity of stuff that we managed to pack for a four day trip. Notice the pineapple on the right side. Really? Kind of felt like the Griswalds.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Our attempts at family portraits are laughable!

Pops and Kennedy playing angry birds.

My parents flew in from Arizona and arrived on Thursday morning. We picked them up at the airport and then headed to GG's to visit.

Carter and his great grandma

Kennedy and GG

Pops definitely has a soft spot for this little one. They had fun together.

Kennedy and Ella

For Thanksgiving, we were fortunate enough to go to the Lowe's for a wonderful dinner. Shane is my second cousin and he and his wife, Karen, were gracious hosts. They had a 2 week old new baby and still managed to host dinner for 15! I was impressed! A fantastic way to spend the holiday! It was a wonderful day and the kids had a blast playing with Ella and all of her toys. The weather was nice, so they took advantage and played outside for quite awhile.

Our hotel had a pool, so the kids were in heaven! I think they swam at least once every day and were usually down in the pool before 8:00!

I cannot begin to say it enough, but I am LUCKY to have a husband who loves to swim with the kids. I've got the easy part - sitting on the sidelines, snapping pictures!

On our last night, we all went out to dinner (sadly, I didn't get a group shot the entire trip!) Carter is enjoying 'dirt in a cup' - a special treat of chocolate pudding, mashed oreos and gummy worms. Always spoiled by Nana!

Circle of Friends Feast

2011-12-05T15:45:00.000-08:00

Kennedy got to attend her first preschool feast this year. These special activities are always so fun! Kennedy was beyond excited and I was thrilled to be able to help.

Wearing hand crafted turkey headpieces . The tail feathers were their hand prints - definitely a keeper!

Kennedy and Jillian

After starting the morning with an abbreviated circle time, the littles headed down to the art room and painted wooden turkeys. I love the look of concentration on her precious face. Kennedy's creative side has really flourished these past several months. She loves to color, paint and craft.

(I was in the kitchen helping to prepare snacks, so these few pictures were taken my sweet friend, Kathy. Thank you!)

Feast time!

Here is Kennedy's class enjoying their snack while listening to a Thanksgiving story read by the director, Miss Sharon.

Sweetness

{thankful}

2011-11-30T20:49:00.000-08:00

Maybe a week behind, but it's never too late to put pen to paper (or in this case, finger to keys) and focus on our many blessings, especially during this holiday season. While I've never been a huge fan of Thanksgiving, (I know, somewhat strange but true) I love the sentiment behind it. I love the feelings of gratitude, the emphasis on the positive and the gathering of friends and family to celebrate. It is often easier to focus on the small things that aren't exactly perfect in life, but during Thanksgiving and the weeks that surround it, our blessings seem to be brighter, more at the forefront of our minds. I love that. I love hearing what people are thankful for, love to see the sweet artwork that the kids bring home (Carter wrote that he was thankful for our family and then drew a sweet, stick figure portrait. Kennedy placed her brother, grandparents, mom, dad and rabbit on her thankful tree), love reading the amazingly poetic blogs of friends expressing graditude, I love it.
Here are just a few of the many things that I am thankful for this season...

Two healthy kids who continue to grow, learn and challenge

A loving husband who also happens to be the world's best dad

Supportive parents

A perfect and faithful God

Dear friends

An encouraging church family

Jobs

Our home and the love that fills it

Fall leaves

A good cup of coffee on a cold morning

Good books

Inquisitive little ones

Small hands to hold

"Mommy, I love you"

New opportunities

The promise and joy of Christmas

I am truly thankful...

Weekend in Arizona

2011-11-16T20:05:00.000-08:00

This past weekend, I made a quick trip down to Arizona for the wedding of my childhood friend, Jenny. Lucky for me, it was also my mom's birthday, so I was able to be there to celebrate with her, as well. It was a good visit, but 48 hours just wasn't enough!

My mom and I before the wedding on Saturday night.

The beautiful bride, Jenny.

Jenny and I first met each other in dance class when we were three years old. We were in school together from second grade through our senior year. After graduation, she headed down to Arizona State (which is where I was originally registered to attend college, as well) but we've stayed in touch throughout the years. I feel fortunate that we are able to see each other on a fairly regular basis - at least once a year. She is smart, funny, full of energy, adventurous and successful. I wish her and her husband, Collin, a lifetime of love and happiness. They sure seem to be a perfect match!

My Aunt Sandy hosted a lovely birthday dinner for my mom on Sunday evening. It was so wonderful to see everyone and visit. It really made me miss the kids, though, as I know they would have loved to have been there.

My mom and aunt have always been so close...their relationship is one of the main reasons I've always wanted a sister.

My parents - married 39 years this month!

We gave my dad a hard time for his outfit (I told him he looked very festive, kind of like a big Easter egg), but I love his attitude towards it all and that he certainly doesn't shy away from bold bright colors. Adds a little something, I think.

My family

Not often that we are all together, it made for a very special day.

Hat Day

2011-11-14T18:51:00.000-08:00

Kennedy had hat day at school last week and wore this cute little cherry beret.

Isn't she a doll?

First Tooth

2011-11-11T06:29:00.000-08:00

Carter reached a big milestone on Sunday with the loss of his first tooth. It was a big deal. Before the tooth actually left his head, I wouldn't have thought it was such a momentous occasion. But let me tell you, as the tooth came out, I felt giddy, sad and hopeful all at the same time. It was nearly equal to those first toddling steps that he took four years ago.

To be honest, this first tooth might have meant more to me than it did to him. I was so excited and (weirdly) proud of my little man. And he was proud, which was so darling to see.

He had an audience...we were at the Phelan's for a family birthday dinner, and Papa convinced him to tie a little thread to his wiggly tooth. With the thread securely in place, Carter was free to pull and pry to his heart's content. I wouldn't have dreamed that he'd go for it. I figured that tooth was going to be, literally, dangling for days before it came out. Boy, was I mistaken. Not more than five minutes after the thread was tied, the tooth was out. With a little help from Daddy and a big tug from Carter himself, the tooth was in hand and everyone was cheering. It was a big deal. I quickly set aside the dishes that I was washing and rushed to get the camera - as I said, I really didn't think it was going to happen. I don't know that I'll ever forget the smile of pride that was beaming from my little guy's face.

Look, Mom, no tooth!

It only bled the tiniest bit, so I guess it really was ready to come out. See the permanent tooth already up behind it? Hopefully it will move it's way forward now that there is room.

First lost tooth

Feeling around and celebrating

A cold wash cloth did the trick, stopped the bleeding quickly and made for a silly picture.The tooth fairy came in the night and left $5. I was awakened by Carter's feet running down the hall and then he nearly shouts, "The tooth fairy brought me 5 bucks. And it's paper money! 5 bucks!!!" Hope he doesn't come to expect that each time the tooth fairy makes a visit - this was a special first time rate!

We had a few interesting conversations regarding the tooth fairy the following day. I think he had a hunch that the tooth fairy wasn't real, but he did a good job of convincing himself otherwise. We talked about it for a bit and then he decided, "she must be real because I would have felt you put money under my pillow. She must be very, very tiny to be able to sneak under my pillow without me noticing." I like that, don't stop believing in magic quite yet, Carter, you're growing up too fast as it is.

Pinkalicious - The Musical!

2011-11-07T19:37:00.000-08:00

On Saturday, I took Kennedy to see Pinkalicious - The Musical downtown. Lindsey and Lauren joined us and it made for such a special day. The girls were very excited for the show and did so well. It was a cute performance, (definitely geared towards little girls who love pink!), and just the right length. The girls did wonderfully and didn't make a peep during the show. Kennedy was bobbing her head and dancing to the music.

When it was over, they both asked when we could go again.

They had a little photo op station set up, so we go this darling picture of Kennedy and Lauren with the Pinkalicious cupcake!

Everything was pink - it was so girly and great!

Before the show

Kennedy and Lauren

The girls

Outside the theater.

The show was at the Newmark Theater inside the Portland Performing Arts building. It was a great venue and easy for the girls to see everything.

Pink. Wands. Yipee!

I can't tell you how thrilled I was by the price of the souvenirs. So much better than the $20 glow stick that Carter wanted at the Imagination Movers concert! Nice work, Oregon Children's Theater.

Right before show time...getting so excited.

After the show we had planned on getting the girls a special treat at a cupcake shop. Cupcake Jones was sponsoring the play, so I figured we'd go there. Lucky for us, we all got free cupcake coupons after the show, so it was a win win. Both girls opted for chocolate cupcakes instead of the special Pinkalicious ones. Eh, who am I to judge, I chose a pumpkin cheesecake mini, and it was heavenly.

Yummy!

Pinkalicious - November 5th, 2011

Harvest Party

2011-11-05T19:16:00.000-07:00

Kennedy had her first school party on Halloween and I was fortunate enough to be able to volunteer in her class. It was so fun to watch Kennedy go throughout her daily school routine and see her interactions with her classmates and teacher. It was a very special day.

All dressed up and ready to head to school. Of course we had to try to snap a few cute pictures before we left.

Kennedy was the calendar helper, so she put the date on the calendar and helped lead her classmates in counting all the way to 31!

Circle time

Doing the "Rainbow Pokey" - have I told you how much I love preschool? Yet another time I wish I could press that pause button...It's such a great atmosphere for learning and growing.

Lining up and trick-or-treating to the other classrooms. Behind Kennedy (in the lion costume) is Jillian. Her brother, Brooks, was Carter's closest friend in preschool, so it's been so fun to have the girls together now. They both have a lot of sass, so it's hilarious to watch their interactions.

After a lesson on good oral hygiene from the Tooth Fairy, the kids got a tooth brush and floss. Great idea, I'd say.

Class picture attempt...getting eight 3 year olds to look at smile at the same time seemed like an impossible feat.

Playing Halloween bingo in the Gummy Bear room

Special snack and a pumpkin story

The 3 year old classes don't go on the pumpkin patch field trip, instead they get to 'pick' pumpkins in the narthex to take home. Kennedy was thrilled with her choice.

Halloween Traditions

2011-11-02T20:21:00.000-07:00

I am one who loves traditions, if it works once I like to do it over and over again. I think it gives me a sense of security - knowing what's coming and how to prepare for it.

Although Halloween is definitely not my most favorite holiday, I do enjoy some of the traditions that we've established as our family has grown. I thought I'd share a few...

Carving pumpkins

We are fortunate enough to be invited each year to our neighbors annual Punk-o-rama pumpkin carving party. It's a huge event and is such a fun way to get people together to celebrate, without the stress of costumes. Thank you Trisha! Our whole family loves this party and Carter really got into the idea of carving a prize worthy pumpkin this year. We carved one at home before the party (because once we walk through our neighbor's door, the kids are off having a blast running and playing with all the other children). Carter wanted to do an "O" for the UO Ducks. Great. Easy enough. He drew the O and Kyle wielded the knife. Neither Carter nor Kennedy would have any part of the touching the insides of the pumpkin. Really, who can blame them?

Go Ducks!

(Please pardon our disaster of a garage...just another thing that seems impossible to keep organized)

Poor Kyle, always tucked away in a corner of the garage working hard to produce an impressive pumpkin. I admit it, we lack the needed creativity to pull off a prize, but we really do try. This year we wanted to do a Harry Potter themed jack-o-lantern, but I never made it to the costume store to pick up the accessories. Instead we decided to carve a silhouette of Hogwarts. I scanned a DVD cover, enlarged it and then printed it out. It provided a nice pattern for Kyle to work with. I thought it turned out amazing! Kyle's getting good! Don't think we got a single vote. Sad.

Here's how they looked all lit up

Before the kids headed out trick-or-treating, I decided to make an entirely orange dinner. Harvest tomato soup, pumpkin and bat grilled cheese sandwiches, oranges and carrots. Easy and festive. The kids loved it.

A few quick pictures on the porch before they bolted. They were so excited to start getting candy!

First house of the evening

I like to go with them for a few houses but then head back home to hand out candy. I just can't be that house that has their light off. Guilt, it's a powerful feeling!

We capped off the fun and excitement with a viewing of "It's the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown." Another tradition that I've come to count on.

then and now

2011-11-01T16:38:00.000-07:00

30 years or so ago, my Gram made me a Raggedy Anne costume for Halloween. I'm not sure how I came to have the costume in my possession, but I've had it for many years and had hoped that one day I would have a little girl who could wear it, too.

Wish granted.

On Monday for Kennedy's Halloween party at school, she wore my old costume. It made me think of my Gram and miss her presence in my life. She was always one of my biggest fans and I never questioned her unconditional love. She always made me feel special and I love that she was such a big part of my life. Her death was a defining time for me and an event that left me with such sadness that I didn't quite know what to do. I had never experienced a loss, certainly nothing could compare. It took years for the hurt to lessen to a dull ache and where I once never let a day pass without thinking of my Gram, now days or weeks can zoom by without a memory. It's sad really, but also a blessing, because sometimes those memories can hurt. I felt tears sting my eyes when I dressed Kennedy in my old costume. I know my Grandma would have loved my kids, seen some of my feisty-ness in my daughter and smiled. Thankfully I know she is looking down on us and smiling still.

Here I am, circa 1981 or '82.

And here was Kennedy, October 31st, 2011

A simple outfit filling my day with memories of my dear Gram.

Any Day Now...

2011-10-30T20:00:00.000-07:00

It's exciting around here...Carter has a loose tooth. His permanent tooth has already poked through the skin and his front right tooth is quite wiggly. He's excited by the prospect of the tooth fairy and I'm amazed at how fast this is all happening. I'm reminded again (this is happening on a near daily basis) that Carter is growing up.

Can you see the new tooth sneaking in behind the others? Is that normal? I ask him nearly every day how that tooth is feeling, yet he doesn't seem in a rush to get it out. I'm impressed by his patience.

Boo Bash

2011-10-30T14:33:00.000-07:00

The annual Boo Bash was on Wednesday and the kids were so excited. It's something the merchants of downtown Camas put on and really it's pretty much mass chaos. But the kids love to dress up, brave the crowds and get a few pieces of candy. It's also fun, because we almost always run into friends from school or church. The weather was perfect and this year Kyle got to go with us for the first time...although it might just be his last.

The kids were very cooperative before we headed out. I was able to get a few good shots.

I've never been a fan of the plastic-y, store bought costumes, but Carter really wanted to be a Transformer. I came across this Bumblebee costume last year on clearance, and he couldn't be happier about it. Kennedy's strawberry costume is warm and soft, perfect for a toddler in the NW. I'm sure it'll be rainy tomorrow night when they're out trick-or-treating.

My little trick-or-treaters.

I really do love our little downtown area. It reminds me of McMinnville, where Kyle and I went to college. It's tree lined and quaint and I love the small town feel. Kennedy was a little overwhelmed by all of the crowds, but Carter had a blast!

Our annual tradition of meeting up with the Pikes. Brevin was a football player and Emery was a cupcake. It was fun to watch Emery and be reminded of years past - as soon as she got a piece of candy, she wanted to eat it!

The highlight of the afternoon - free mini ice cream cones at Dairy Queen.

The little munchkin was worn out. She only lasted down one side of the street and then she and Daddy headed back to the car.

Happy Halloween!

Feeling Festive for Fall

2011-10-25T18:28:00.000-07:00

I have a slight love affair with fall...while not a huge fan of change in general, I love to witness the change of seasons, the shortening of days and the vibrant colors on the trees. I love to bring out my wool sweaters and endless supply of turtlenecks. I love to cuddle with fluffy blankets on the couch and burrow in a bit deeper in down while trying to fall asleep. I love football season and the start of school. And I can also usually count on fall to deliver some beautiful sunny days in which to enjoy all of these things. Overall, it's a wonderful time of year.

My dear friend, Shannon, made us some delicious bread as a thank you and I had to call her up the next day for the recipe. It was simply delectable and just screamed 'fall' to me. I made a couple of batches and delivered them to the kids' teachers, to a few friends and we enjoyed a couple of loaves at home, as well.

Here is my finished product. I doctored them up a bit with some ribbon and a card made from my Cricut - I thought they made cute little gifts.

And here is the recipe - it's easy and scrumptious, the perfect combination for my limited cooking abilities!
3 c. sugar
1 c. oil
4 eggs
2/3 c. water
16 oz pumpkin
2 tsp. ground ginger
1 tsp. cinnamon
1 tsp. nutmeg
1 tsp. all spice
3 1/2 c. flour
2 tsp. baking soda
1 1/2 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. baking powder
1/2 c. chocolate chips

Mix the wet ingredients, mix in the dry until blended, fold in chocolate chips. Pour into 2 large loaf pans (I used two large and two small to stretch the batter - Shannon suggested it, as it makes two really big loaves that don't cook quite as well) Bake at 350 degrees for about 1 hour. That was a bit too long in my oven, I found the small loaves cooked in about 40 minutes and the large ones did better at about 50. They are done when they bounce back on your finger and are no longer sticky.

Delicious, really. Give it a try!

Each year I like to buy a new decoration for our home. This year, after seeing a similar mantel in a magazine, I was on a mission to spruce ours up. I've always just had pictures in the past, but thought this was a great space to display seasonal decorations. Found some great deals at the craft stores and Home Goods and ended up with a festive fall mantel.

Another reason to love fall. I love to decorate our front porch with pumpkins, corn stalks and hay. It's such a nice way to welcome to guests.

A Visit with Nana

2011-10-23T12:41:00.000-07:00

We were lucky enough to have my mom come for an extended visit last week while Kyle was travelling. Not only was it wonderful to have her with us, the timing could not have been more perfect. The kids loved having their Nana and I think it helped miss Daddy a little less. I was able to work, knowing that my kids were in loving hands and got some much needed help and support. Each time my mom visits, it's a reminder of how much we miss her, though. She is an incredible help, and I know that Carter and Kennedy adore having her here. We were able to have a few hours together on Monday morning while both kids were in school, so that was fun too. We usually sneak away for an afternoon of shopping and lunch, but we made due with an abbreveated two hours - coffee and a quick shopping trip instead! Recently, I had the opportunity to talk about my mom in my small group from church (we're focusing on spiritual parenting). I am constantly reminded of how lucky I am to have a mom who gives so much of herself to her children and grandchildren. She has set an amazing example for me, and I am grateful to God to have her never ending love and encouragement. It's a blessing to feel unconditional love and I am thankful that Carter and Kennedy get to experience it, as well. I can't imagine them feeling anything other than complete adoration when Nana is around. We love you very much, Mom!

Carter was intent on making a "five foot sign" to welcome Nana at the airport. It kept them busy that morning when I raced around to get us all ready for a friend's birtday party. Carter did a wonderful job writing "We missed you Nana" and then they each drew a few pictures and Carter then wrote each of their names and traced their hand prints. I was impressed. They got many smiles at the airport and were so excited for Nana to see their work.

Let the fun begin! Nana loves to do special activities with the kids while she's here. We were busy and filled each day with fun!

Nana brought some special Halloween crafts and they had lots of fun working together making pumpkins, ghosts, owls and witches.

We did a little baking

Played a fun new game, Skipbo Junior, that Nana brought

Lots of time reading and snuggling on the couch.

A great morning at OMSI on Wednesday, since Carter didn't have school.

The chemistry lab was their favorite spot again. Carter really loved doing the experiments (I'm not so secretly thrilled about this...I love to watch his little mind work).

After a busy day of OMSI, the pumpkin patch, then Kennedy's speech appointment, we were able to relax and take advantage of the beautiful evening down on the river. We met Carrie and Ethan for dinner and thoroughly enjoyed our time together.

Ethan and his beautiful blue eyes. He's a mover and a shaker and so much fun!

Carrie and I and our boys. Certainly not the best picture in the world, but I just had to include it. Care is such a dear friend to me, and I've loved watching her embrace motherhood with such love and passion. She is wonderful and juggles so much, but she always has time for friends and is such a blessing to me.

On Friday, while I snuck in a few hours of sleep, Nana and kids headed to the children's museum. Since school was out, it was crazy busy but the kids had a good time exploring the new Lego Castle exhibit.
Good job snapping pictures, Mom!

Future vet perhaps? A good way to put that love of science to use.

And if the museum wasn't enough, after a few hours they headed over to the zoo...shared an elephant ear, went on the train and saw some animals. What a special day!

Nana's flight times were just perfect, and she was able to make it to two of Carter's soccer games. It's always nice to have extra family cheering him along. Carter scored a couple of goals, so he was thrilled.

Daddy's home!
Oh Kennedy, that frown of yours is something else!

Love you, little man!

That's better

We headed to the airport shortly after the game and said goodbye to Nana. We really do cherish our time together and are so thankful for all that you do for us.

As Nana was packing up, she gave Carter and Kennedy their Halloween presents. They were beyond excited to be receiving a gift, and Carter said, "This is much better than a goodbye hug!"

Goodbyes aren't easy, but for Carter they are made easier with a few M & M's

School Days

2011-10-22T06:32:00.000-07:00

We got the kids school pictures back this week, and I was surprisingly pleased with both of them. I love that our preschool takes their pictures outside and I think the photographer must be wonderful, because he can always get the kids to smile.

Kennedy - 3 years old

So far, Kennedy really seems to love school. It's amazing how different my two children are when it comes to learning, though. While Carter's hand always shot up when a question was asked, Kennedy is very shy and reserved. She shows little interest in learning her letters but she desperately wants to write her name. In fact, usually a few scribbles will do and she'll proclaim "k e n n e d y, Kennedy:" When we attended Open House last week, she clung to me and barely spoke a word. I was hoping that was due to the presence of all the parents, but Miss Laura said that she's very shy during circle time and doesn't want to singled out. However, if she has something to say, she'll jabber on and on. I was a little worried, but I've seen such evidence of learning in other ways. She sings the songs, says the flag salute and comes home from school each day happy and full of details to share. She gets along well with her classmates, although she hasn't declared a favorite friend at school. It'll be interesting to see what the rest of the year will hold...

Carter - 5 years old

Carter man is one smart little boy. His school year started off a little slow, and I was quite worried about him for the first couple of weeks of kindergarten. He was much more reserved than typical and I think the whole change was just a lot for him to process. It didn't take long, though, and now he loves it. He likes his teacher and he's made several nice friends. (It was my most frequent prayer that he would attract kind kids with good hearts and thankfully my prayers were answered) I've always been amazed at his ability to find good friends. In both of his preschool classes, his two closest friends were exactly the two boys I would have chosen for him if I could. I am thankful that he seems to have the ability to surround himself with people who are generally good. Although he loves to learn, when asked he'll say that his favorite part of school is recess or snack time. Silly boy. At recess he plays soccer or runs the track (each time a lap is completed, students are given a ticket and once they have 20 tickets, they get a plastic foot to put on a necklace. Carter and his buddy Ryan were the first to get their necklaces and he was beyond proud!) I love his desire for knowledge, although he's taken to embellishing or just plain making things up. I think he does this for the attention, but it's a phase I'm hoping he'll pass right on through! We do a lot of reading and writing at home, because I honestly can't fathom how his teacher is able to do much in less than 3 hours (minus recess, snack, library, PE, music, etc.) with 25 crazy boys and girls. I have been grateful for the opportunity to volunteer each week, so I feel much more connected with his classroom and school. This was a big transition for Mama, too.

Kennedy's class photo - Who invited the giant? Not only is she sitting next to the teeniest little girl in her class, but she's sitting on the edge of her seat which gives the illusion that she's even bigger. Really, she looks twice the size of her classmates!

Carter's class photo.

A look back at Carter's first year of preschool. We are so lucky to have the same great teacher, both of my kids have adored Miss Laura. I think it's fun to compare the pictures...amazing how they can change in two years. When Carter started preschool, Kennedy had just turned 1 and was toddling around on newly walking legs. Now here she is in preschool herself. Amazing.

Pumpkin Patch

2011-10-19T20:32:00.000-07:00

I love our annual trip to the pumpkin patch for so many reasons...the crispness of fall in the air, watching the kids run around and excitedly find a dozen 'perfect' pumpkins and (perhaps most of all) the great opportunities to snap fun pictures. I'm somewhat of a crazy picture taker and love to capture life's little moments. Some of the time my family humors me and actually smiles, but most of the time they don't. With that being said, this year we made more of a spur of the moment trip to the patch...the weather was too beautiful to pass up, Nana was in town and I didn't have to work. It just felt like the best opportunity to squeeze in a visit. Unfortunately that means that this years photos, while never stellar, won't even have coordinating fall outfits. Laugh as you may, and I know you will, but it's just one of the number of things that I'm funny about. Even though it was a perfect day with the pumpkins, I'm secretly hoping to have another sunny day so I can dress the kids up and get a few "fall worthy" photos.

In the mean time, Carter and his green surfer shirt will have to do.

Carter was very excited to have found a wheel barrow. It was bigger than him, but he was insistent on pushing it around (for a few minutes at least).

I just love how Kennedy's nose crinkles when she's really smiling...for all of the scowls and frowns, when this girl finds something to smile about it can light up my world!

See what I mean?

I am amazed on a near daily basis by how grown up Carter is getting. He's 5 1/2 now, big and all mature looking. Where is the pause button? I know there are wonderful things awaiting us, but sometimes I just wish we could savor this time without the feeling that it's flying by.

Nana and the kiddos

We made it home with three very large pumpkins and three very small ones. Had it been up to Kennedy, we would have had a trunk full!

The sun was in their eyes...and it was funny.

Carter in the corn

He kept insisting that this was a corn maze so we had to run in and be quiet so that Nana and Kennedy didn't find us. It was simply a corn field, but it was so fun to watch his excitement that I didn't have the heart to break it to him.

Having fun in the maze. It was actually kind of hard to find your way out...thankfully they had two lookout towers that we were able to use to locate the exit. Carter loved it and raced off on his own.

There was a large cut out of a bear that kind of scared the kids but in a fun way. I was able to capture Kennedy's reaction.

Good wine, great friends!

2011-10-11T14:20:00.000-07:00

Many, many months my dear friends and I purchased Groupons for a wine tasting trip and limo ride. After a few failed attempts of trying to get it planned, we actually pulled it off and had a five our trip around the Willamette Valley in a (unintentionally) 80's, retro limousine. It was pretty cheesy, but to be honest, any time this group of girls gets together, we have a good time. It was an entertaining way to spend a Sunday afternoon and produced a lot of fun memories

All set and ready to go
Our first stop was Canas Feast, a winery in Yamhill-Carlton area. We tasted a few wines but mostly enjoyed the time catching up. It was a very pretty setting, but I was disappointed to realize that this particular winery did not grow its own fruit. They bring fruit in from other growers and then produce their wine. It kind of seemed like cheating a little. Regardless, our trip started off well.
Our second stop was Mia something or other, a very small winery in Amity. I'll just say that it was not an impressive place. At all. But again, we had a fun time, laughing, eating and enjoying some more wine.
Third stop was at Duck Pond, right outside of Dundee. It's a beautiful setting and we tasted a few different wines. It was neat to see some of the equipment that is used to make and bottle the wine.

Care, Kirst and I

Kirstin, me, Lisa at Canas Feast

Fun times!

Overall it was a wonderful day with amazing friends - we had a blast talking, singing, taking pictures and just enjoyed each others company. I always walk away from time with friends feeling so thankful. What a blessing to have such wonderful women in my life.

back at it

2011-10-11T14:06:00.000-07:00

I had been doing so well at keeping up with my blog...taking lots of pictures, posting often and just generally keeping up with the documentation of our family's life. October is obviously not starting out as well, but I'm trying! Life seems to be extra busy for us during this "season of change." Fall is always a time of transition and this year is no exception. Kyle started a new job last week, which has been a big adjustment for us all. Thankfully this new opportunity was prayerfully considered, and I do believe it was the best thing for our family. It's a great change for Kyle, a chance to learn some new skills and do something new with his career. It's been an adjustment for all of us, as Kyle has been travelling but we are hopeful that it will lead to great things! Thankfully Nana flew in on Saturday, so the kids are loving the special company and I am constantly grateful for the extra set of hands. My mom is pretty amazing, and I feel so blessed to have her with us this week.

Two weekends ago, we were gearing up for Daddy's trip but managed to squeeze in some fun.

Brady and Auntie Val came over for lunch and joined us for Carter's soccer game. Carter scored two goals, so he was over the moon! How cute is this little man? And he's so mellow - wow! He's growing up so fast!

Saturday afternoon, we headed out to Hillsboro. Grandma and Papa had invited the kids to spend the night and they were all too eager to accept. It's always a special time when they get to sleep over.

Carter and Papa picked lots of apples off the tree and Grandma made homemade applesauce. Yum!

While the kiddos were enjoying a special night with their grandparents, Kyle and I enjoyed a date night. We did a few errands and then headed to dinner. It was great to be able to have some good conversation and really talk about the upcoming changes. It was a fantastic evening and I'm so glad that we were able to have some time together.

pinkalicious baking

2011-10-03T20:03:00.000-07:00

For those of you with little girls (who love all things pink), you're probably familiar with the story Pinkalicious. Well, Kennedy thinks the book is hilarious and we read it all of the time! One morning last week we were at Target grabbing a few things and she asked to buy the ingredients for pink cupcakes. She informed me she wanted "to eat more and more and more and then I be pink!" I thought it was a great way to spend an hour or so together, so we picked up a few things and headed home to bake.

One of the many things that sometimes makes me feel like an inadequate mother is the fact that I buy box cakes and frosting from a can. Gross. But really quite good :) Quite hypocritical, as well. I'm a little over the top when it comes to organic produce and dairy products, yet I feel okay letting Carter and Kennedy eat store bought frosting. Hmmm. I've decided that before the year is through, I am going to make a cake from scratch. It's kind of sad, but I've never actually done that. Ever. I'll let you know how it goes.
I was impressed at the many teachable moments I found while whipping up a batch of cupcakes. We talked about the colors of the paper liners, we counted eggs, measured the water and oil and then counted as we mixed. It made me feel slightly better about using Pillsbury frosting.

Yum!
Who wouldn't love that face?

Once we picked Carter up from school, he helped us out by frosting a few. A funny little side note about this picture - it wasn't hot that day, in fact it was probably a little chilly but Carter cannot wait to change out of "school" clothes and into his 'workout' gear. My little man loves to be comfortable!

our little gymnast

2011-09-29T17:56:00.001-07:00

A few months ago Kennedy started a gymnastics class at a gym here in Camas. It was a little chaotic during the summer months (she had a few crazy boys in her class), but she is now in a class on Monday afternoons with Lauren and a few other girls. She really loves it and I think it's great for her coordination. Almost daily, she will ask "Is it gymnastics today?" I really wanted to sign her up for a dance class, as well, but I think gymnastics is more suited towards her personality at the moment. Maybe we'll rethink ballet for next year.

I'm always amazed at the people who have the patience to teach preschool aged children. Often their class is like herding cats, but this sweet Bulgarian man never seems to get flustered. He likes them to pay attention, but he directs them in a very positive and patient way. He's great at keeping them moving and switches activities often so they don't get bored.

We're probably not Olympic bound, but it's great fun for Kennedy!

Hakuna Matata

2011-09-29T17:47:00.000-07:00

After church on Sunday, we took advantage of the rainy weather and went to the movies to see The Lion King with the kids. It has always been one of my favorites (and Kyle's too), so we were excited for Carter and Kennedy to experience it. I got goose bumps during the opening scenes when Simba was presented to the animal kingdom. The music is amazing and the movie was as good as I remember it. The kids loved it too, and Kennedy sat quite still which was a first.

Oh and one of the more comical happenings while at the movie was when the preview for Happy Feet 2 (we haven't seen the first one) was shown. The little penguins were rapping to Justin Timberlake and Carter thought it was HILARIOUS! His laugh was so loud that it made other movie goers laugh, too. He's still talking about it. Excited for the show to start

And this little one was so tuckered out after a busy weekend that she fell asleep on the couch after the movie and pretty much slept until the next morning. Nothing like 13 hours of sleep to refresh a person!

A Special Mommy Daughter Day

2011-09-25T19:28:00.000-07:00

While Carter was at school for a full day on Wednesday, Kennedy and I took a special trip to the zoo. It was a beautiful, sunny day and I thoroughly enjoyed our special time together. It's not often that we have several hours to just enjoy...no errands to run, groceries to buy, laundry to do or house to clean, just uninterrupted fun! It was great to explore the zoo at Kennedy's pace, as well. We go often, but the two kids are usually running in different directions or have different attention spans for the various animals. Today was all about Kennedy and Mommy!

Self portrait in front of the giraffes. Kennedy declared this graceful animal as her favorite of the day.
Excited to see the water shoot up from the geyser.

Not quite as tall as a sun bear

The orangutans are new to our zoo, and I've always found them to be fascinating animals. This sight was somewhat heartbreaking for me (and one of the reasons that I sometimes struggle at the zoo. My mom is the same and it's why we didn't visit the zoo as frequently go growing up), she just looked so sad. Her eyes were so expressive and she seemed to be looking at the children with a longing to be outside those walls. Definitely the hardest part about seeing animals in captivity. I always feel the same way with the chimps.

Monks being a monkey with the elephants

The proverbial photos on the statues...I wonder if there will ever come a time when the kids don't want to play on these neat statues? The best part is that I am almost always guaranteed a good picture!

Making music with the African instruments

Birthday party fun

2011-09-25T14:04:00.000-07:00

We were fortunate enough to be able to help Lillian celebrate her 2nd birthday last weekend. We had to rush out early to make it to Carter's soccer game but not before we enjoyed a great lunch, wonderful entertainment and fun with friends. Kirstin is an amazing party planner and we had a great time!

Kirstin's dad made this great wooden bus that sat on the porch welcoming guests. It was a great prop for photos, too.

Here's the birthday girl, sitting with her Aunt Jackie, enjoying the music of Mr. Ben with her cousin, Mallory.

Sweet Ethan and his Auntie Katie - I love this little guy!
Kids always love Kyle and Ethan is no exception. He thought it was hilarious to feed Kyle veggie straws.

The kiddos grooving to Mr. Ben

What a wonderful idea for a toddler's party - Mr. Ben was mellow, engaging and played great songs. He brought the birthday girl a ukulele and she loved it.

Happy 2nd Birthday, Lillian! We love you.

River Ride

2011-09-25T13:56:00.000-07:00

Trying to take advantage of the last days of summer, we packed up our bikes and headed down to the river after church. There is a wonderful path that runs right along the river's edge and it's fairly flat which lends itself as a perfect bike trail for little ones. It was the perfect way to spend a sunny, Sunday afternoon.

All ready to head out

Kennedy didn't last more than 1/4 of a mile, but thankfully Kyle still has the seat on the back of his bike. He stored her bike in some bushes off to the side and she rode along for the rest of the ride.

After our great ride, we enjoyed a wonderful lunch sitting on the patio of Beaches. My neighbor had suggested it as a great family friendly restaurant and it didn't disappoint. The kids got a sand bucket of crayons and toys and after lunch, they got to help the waitress make their own sundaes. They loved it!

Fun & Learning

2011-09-19T15:50:00.000-07:00

The kids and I had a few science fun adventures last week. We took advantage of Carter's day off on Wednesday and headed to OMSI. We have a pass, so we've been several times but we've never had more fun exploring and experimenting. The chemistry and physics labs were both open and we were able to do some experimenting there. Carter enjoyed the fiber optics/holograms lab and we all had fun seeing various animals/insects/reptiles in the life sciences area. It was such a great way to spend the day!

Taking after Mom -

Future scientists in the making...

Earlier in the week, we headed to the Columbia Springs fish hatchery. We've driven by dozens of times, as it's located right on the old Evergreen Highway and Carter loves to drive that way to see the river and train. I had intended to take a trip this summer but never made it. It was awesome and the kids loved seeing the fish. They had great informative displays and information posted, so the kids got to learn about the life cycle of the fish and see the different ponds and tanks.
It was all very exciting!

They had one pond where the kids could feed the fish and you could really see them. They would cluster and jump out of the water. It was amazing.

Space shuttle launching and landing

Yes, I know this post probably highlights my nerdy streak, but I really do enjoy doing things like this with the kids. We are so blessed to be surrounded by such awesome opportunities and I'm so thankful that I have the time in the day to introduce them to new things. I love to see their curiosity peak and the light of knowledge spark.

Kicking off another soccer season

2011-09-19T15:39:00.000-07:00

Carter has started another year of soccer and seems to be enjoying it. He has the same coach (a saint, really, with a load a patience) and enjoys being back with his teammates from last year. I don't think it's his favorite sport, but he likes being out on the field running and (mostly) watching the action.

Gearing up for the first game. We played a Vancouver club team and it was obvious their coach was much more intense and they probably practiced several times a week! It was a fairly close game, because thankfully the other team was composed of four year olds.
At times it's kind of painful to watch Carter out on the field. I almost hate to admit it, but Kyle and I are both so competitive that watching Carter be passive is tough on both of us. We will just encourage him to be aggressive and go after the ball. Carter scored one goal and was very proud of himself! It's so fun to watch him get excited.

Game #2

What a difference a week makes - it was 90 degrees and hot the previous Saturday but rainy and cold for the second game. We arrived a little late (after rushing from a bday party) but Carter headed right out onto the field. Another club team from Vancouver and this time it was a much more lopsided game. They had one stand out kid that was so good, our players were a bit intimidated. Carter would come off to the side and say, "wow mom, that #6 is really good. He scores every time!) Looking forward to playing Camas teams from here on out!

It doesn't seem so long ago...

2011-09-08T12:48:00.000-07:00

It doesn't seem so long ago that my little boy looked like this...

Or that his sister was just a tiny little baby.
It seems like yesterday that my two children were learning to walk and talk, dressing themselves was impossible and two naps a day was standard.
Look how far we've come in a mere blink of an eye...
They both started school on Tuesday morning, kindergarten for Carter and preschool for Kennedy. I found myself constantly asking the question, how can this be? How is it that they are both old enough to be on their own, learning and growing away from home for hours each day? Carter on the first day of kindergarten
5 years old

Ready to start the new school year

Kennedy on her first day of preschool

3 years old

Backpack on, ready to go!

All set!

Of course they had to be silly

I was an emotional wreck all day. It was a mix of shock, sadness and pride as I watched Carter walk away, following his teacher, and enter into this new experience. Thankfully Kennedy threw a big fit after we dropped Carter off, so I was distracted and managed to hold it together. Just a few tears, hidden wisely behind my sunglasses, as we said goodbye.Daddy went to work a little late, so that he could come to school too.

We arrived at school and were welcomed by the zebra mascot. Carter thought it was super cool - what a great way to dispel some of the tension and apprehension of arriving at a new school.

Waiting in line...this is where we had to say goodbye. No getting to walk him to his classroom or snap pictures at his cubby. He was nervous and a little anxious but did great! His biggest complaint of the day was that they had to listen to playground rules instead of playing on the monkey bars or swings. Some recess, huh? I love that recess can make or break the day.

My prayer for Carter as he started this big adventure was that he'd find a few nice friends and continue to enjoy learning. I prayed that his teacher would show him love and nurture his natural curiosity for things. I prayed that he'd stay confident in himself and his abilities. This is a big step for all of us, and I hope it starts to feel normal soon.

Kennedy hanging up her backpack on her pink gumdrop.

Whereas I was nervous and anxious for Carter to start school, I couldn't wait to drop Kennedy off. I feel so comfortable at our little preschool and know that she will be loved and nurtured by the entire staff. It gives me peace to know other families and have experience with the teachers. I'm so thankful that they'll incorporate God into lessons and pray before eating snack...it's a fabulous environment! It didn't hurt that Kennedy was being her typical challenging self that morning. I said adios and headed to Starbucks - an hour of freedom was mine! Hers was a shortened day, so next week will allow for more productivity on my part, I hope.

Sitting down at the table and jumping right in...I was worried that she might cry about being left on her own, but she did super. She loved her day and gave me all the details of what art projects they had done, who had what job and what toys she played with outside. She was a little chatterbox, so I felt completely informed about her first day.

Labor Day fun

2011-09-07T19:53:00.001-07:00

I'm actually blogging about Labor Day a mere two days later...gasp. Can it be so? Am I really caught up? I'm anxious to post pictures from the kids' first day of school, but I wanted to get these fun photos posted before I move on.

Our holiday weekend was a busy, fun filled three days.

Our attempt at a group shot - unfortunately we waited until the very last moments of our time together, so kids were tired, outfits and hair were rumpled, but there they are...still four darling kids.

Luke (2), Kennedy (3), Emi (5), Carter (5)

The weekend started off on Saturday morning with a visit from my dear friend, Ali and her two equally sweet children, Luke and Emi. We don't get to see them nearly as much and our few hours together only made me miss them more! Ali has a heart of gold and is such an encouraging friend. She gives wonderful advice, always has a thoughtful perspective and has an rock solid faith that is inspiring. Our time together is never long enough, as I imagine we could talk for two days without running out of relevant topics, but it is always special!

Emi and Carter have always played so well together - she has the purest heart and sweetest disposition and it must rub off of on our crazy boy. There wasn't an argument or a time out and I don't even think I needed to ask Carter to be quiet or settle down (which usually happens every few minutes, or so it seems). At one point, Kyle was reading them books and these two sweet, five year old souls, sat holding hands and rubbing each other's backs. It just doesn't get any more precious than that.

Along with Carter's love for Emi, Kennedy also developed a great admiration for this sweet girl.

Giving hugs before they had to go.

We love you Williams' family!

Daddy and Carter gearing up for the big game on Saturday night. Unfortunately it did not turn out the way we had hoped.
Sunday afternoon, Auntie Carrie and Ethan stopped by for a quick visit. Love this little guy and his big, blue eyes! He's on the move and I'm sure will be running around in no time. Kennedy and Carter enjoyed sharing some books and toys that they no longer use.

Sunday afternoon brought us together with the Grice Family. They are a dear family with four young children. And while we've socialized at church for the past few years, this was the first time that we'd gotten our families together. It was a fabulous evening...one filled with great conversation, meaningful fellowship and fun! They were wonderful hosts and the kids had the best time running and playing outside. We are definitely looking forward to getting together again soon.

Kyle was the biggest kid of them all! He's holding David and Kennedy as torpedoes and running around after the other kids. Kennedy and David were born just a week or so apart.

Kids being silly!

Samuel is a bit older than Carter while Audrey is just a little younger.

We headed out to the Partain's new home on Monday for a BBQ and time with friends. The kids were pretty tired, Kennedy especially, but we stayed a few hours and had a great time.

Buddies - Carter and Adrian - snacking away!

highlights of summer

2011-09-05T08:37:00.000-07:00

With Labor Day here, it's officially the end of summer...school is starting and our days of freedom and flexibility are behind us. It's been a fun and busy summer and I know I could never blog about everything that we've done. So, I'm doing one post and dumping all of our random summer pictures into it. Finally, I feel like I'm caught up on documenting these past three months.

Many trips to the park
Golfing at Bullwinkles for Brevin's 4th birthday

Splashing at the Wilsonville fountian

Brevin, Carter and Kennedy

Kennedy took off on her bike

Carter learned to cross the monkey bars and was somewhat obbessed

First of many trips to the zooKennedy started gymnastics

Swimming lessons for both kids - they did an awesome job!

Celebrating Mommy's birthday

Dear friends - Jackie, Jenny and Julie

My oldest friends who eventhough our lives have led us in different directions we can still talk for hours when we get together. We celebrated Jenny's upcoming wedding at a shower in July.

OMSI trip

Hiking at Beacon Rock with Daddy

The best friends anyone could ask for...Kirstin and Carrie treated me to tickets to the Avett Brothers concert for my birthday. We had the BEST time.

Never a shortage of laughter and smiles when we are together

My friend Jackie made a surprise visit home from Austrailia this summer and it was wonderful spending time with her and her family. Sienna (6), Carter (5), Kennedy (3) and Alessia (4) - Ava (almost 1) was missing from our picture.

Carter took golf lessons - man, can he strike the ball!

Berry picking on Sauvie's Island for Emery's 2nd birthday

Brevin and Carter picking raspberries

Lauren, Kennedy, Andrew and Carter at Oaks Park

Carter's strawberries that he planted on his farm field trip...they were delicious!

A night out with girlfriends

Eagle Crest 2011

2011-09-03T14:24:00.001-07:00

We made our annual trip over to Central Oregon in mid-August and enjoyed a fabulous week with the Phelan family at Eagle Crest. Each year the kids have more and more fun - they were in perpetual motion and enjoyed all of the wonderful outdoor activities.

Our condo was right on the 7th hole, so the kiddos went out and practiced a bit.
Our morning hike down by the river - of course the boys had to play in the dirt and water!

The Crew
Notice Sloane in the background, just hanging out in her stroller. She was a trooper!

Boy did the kids love the pool this year. They couldn't get enough - they're little fishes!

Dad of the Year for braving that cold pool every day

Brady and I relaxing pool side

Uncle J and Miss K

Something was sure funny

Carter got to head out with the big boys and play a full 18 holes. He did great and only got bored towards the very end. Thankfully he was content to sit in the cart and play on dad's phone.

Our pretty girl

Morning trip to the park

There is no love lost between these two...not sure if it's because they are so close in age or just both have strong wills, but their arguments were hilarious. Intense and often unintelligible Hoping they move past this phase soon and learn to enjoy one another.

Bennett (almost 3), Sloane (3 months) & Kennedy (3)

Each year our group grows

These kids are too much.

I just love this picture as it captures their delight in the simple pleasure of being silly and playing outside.

finally...boating weather is here!

2011-08-27T13:36:00.001-07:00

Summer has finally arrived here in the beautiful Pacific Northwest. I feel the sunny days and warm temperatures are our reward for putting up with months and months of grey and rain. And for the majority of those 10 months or so, the boat sits in the garage taking up valuable storage space. But on these rare, glorious, hot summer days I am so thankful that we have the chance to get out on the water and enjoy our majestic surroundings.

A few weeks ago we headed up to Lake Merwin for our inaugural boat trip (we're lucky enough to be going again tomorrow) and had such a wonderful time. It was just the four of us and the day could not have been better. It was sunny and warm, the kids loved riding in the tube and jumping into the water. I even managed to come close to rock star status in Carter's eyes as I dusted off the water skis and took a little spin. It was a fabulous family day!

Excited kiddos!

Who's ready to go boating?
these two

Going for a dip in the icy cold waters. Lake Merwin is a reservoir that is filled by Mt. St. Helen's snow melt...brrr!

Our first tube trip -

an example of how much I love my kids. I really don't love cold water, but it was so worth it to hear their squeals of delight.

I think the tube had a slow leak, so by our second time I was getting a lot wetter. Kennedy loved every second, though.

Carter helped Daddy drive

Mr. Brave decided to hit the tube by himself, he did great!

Princess Kennedy is 3!

2011-08-24T14:02:00.000-07:00

Way back on July 9th, Kennedy celebrated her 3rd birthday with a pretty, pink princess party. It was such a special day for her, as I believe this was the first birthday where she actually realized everything was for HER! She was very sweet and very excited about her party. She woke up that morning (even earlier than normal) and quipped, "it's me party today?" We kept the guest list smaller this time around and I think that helped Kennedy enjoy her self more. The kids decorated crowns in the 'Royal Design Studio', got the fingernails and toenails painted in the 'Princess Beauty Parlor', listened to a story, ate lunch and enjoyed cake. It was such a fun party to put together and my mom was a huge help - I felt so relaxed and was really able to enjoy the festivities too.

Kennedy waiting to welcome her guests up the pink carpet

Miss K and Auntie Val - these two share a very special bond and we were so happy she was able to help celebrate Kennedy's big day!

Kennedy went upstairs and opened a present early, sneaky little girl.

The boys - Kyle, cousin Brady and Carter

Our first guest, Princess Lillian and her beautiful mommy, Kirstin.

Nana! What would we do without her?

Of course the boys had to be silly

Baby dolls and princess accessories were the big gifts of the day.

A singing card

Here are pics of the decorations -

Welcome to the Royal Palace

Favor bags

Wishing I would have rented slip covers for the chairs, but I loved how the table looked.

Princess Kennedy is 3

I was thrilled with how the cake turned out. I had purchased a groupon from Beaverton Bakery and just ordered over the phone. My only stipulation was that the cake needed to be pink - I LOVED how it looked!

4th of July Fun

2011-08-01T16:18:00.000-07:00

Sadly, it's now August and I'm still trying to catch up my blogging from the beginning of July. Oh well, better late than never!

We had a fabulous 4th of July celebration this year...I could really do without the booming fire works that exploded each night (for a week!) in our neighborhood, but I tried hard not to be a Grinch on the 4th. We ended up heading downtown to the Blues Fest on the waterfront and met up with three other families. It was a gorgeous afternoon, and the kids did surprisingly well. We were able to enjoy some good music and great time with friends.

Festive kiddos
Thank goodness for snacks...there wasn't a ton of room for the kids to run or play, but they sure enjoyed eating!

Carter and Ethan

How cute is this little guy?

A group shot - Care and Cheri, Carter, Adrian and Eli

Nana and Kennedy finding new forms of entertainment

When we got home, we let the kids do a few sparklers. I'm kind of anti fireworks, but I have fond memories of sparklers and the kids really enjoyed them.

Such sweetness

Family Time

2011-08-01T16:08:00.000-07:00

Family is such an important part of our lives, and I know I've said it many times before, but I'm so thankful for our loving, supportive and generous family members. I'm also so grateful that Carter and Kennedy have cousins that are close to them in age - it's so special to see them interact with one another. Not to mention I get baby time without actually having a baby, it's the best!

Carter and Brady celebrating Grandma's birthday.

This little guy is so sweet and mellow, such an easy baby and so easy to love!

Carter helping Grandma with her candles

Happy Birthday, Grandma!

We were so lucky to have Stacy, Bennett and the newest addition to our family, Sloane, visit for a few days at the end of June. Sloane was just a month old and so tiny. We had a busy week, but we managed to squeeze in two short visits. We are all anxious for our time in Eagle Crest so we can get to know her better.

Kennedy's excited to have another girl in the family and was very gentle with Sloane.

Cannon Beach & the Sackmans

2011-07-26T14:28:00.001-07:00

We spent a perfect day in Cannon Beach with our dear friends, the Sackmans. This is an annual tradition and one that we love! Not only do we have a fun time at the coast, but it's a great way to see friends who live far away.

Another beautiful day at Cannon Beach

Actually touching the sand...it didn't last long but she played a bit more this time.

All the kids

This is the way she rides

Carter had the BEST day. He loved running on the beach, exploring the tide pools, playing in the sand and hanging with the big kids.

A little windy but overall a beautiful day at the beach

Annual Arizona Trip

2011-07-26T14:15:00.001-07:00

We drove from San Diego over to Arizona and spent another week there with Nana and Pops. The kids swam every day and had a fabulous time. I think we were all sad to see our time there some to an end.

Karina, Christian, Tony and Cindy were over for a bbq celebrating Christian's high school graduation.

Splash time!

Feeding the ducks during an evening walk to the pond.

Pops and Daddy took the kids miniature golfing one morning. Carter loved it and Kennedy couldn't be bothered.

Quite possibly one of my favorite pictures of Kennedy - this just sums her up so perfectly. Part grump, part sass, part cute - and she knows it!

Carter picking grapefruits off the tree in the back yard. They were huge and delicious!

california kids

2011-07-26T14:10:00.000-07:00

I can now understand why people pay a small fortune to live in California. The weather was wonderful and the beaches were fantastic. We headed out after dinner one night and spent the evening building sandcastles and playing in the waves.

Land of a million Legos

2011-07-26T13:45:00.000-07:00

We kicked off the summer with a wonderful trip to San Diego and Legoland. Nana drove over from AZ, picked the kids and I up at the airport and we made our way north to Carlsbad. We had a great three days - the park was perfect for the preschool set and the kids had a really fun time.

First day - ready for some fun!

Carter was AWESOME at driving the cars. I was really impressed. While all the other kids were crashing into the curbs or each other, he maneuvered his car around all the pile ups and drove around the circular track time and again without incident. He was so serious about it, and it was so fun to watch.

Kennedy actually seemed to enjoy the park a bit more than Carter, especially on the first day when we hadn't discovered the roller coasters yet. She was filled with joy!

Our hotel had a little park and great pool ride outside our door. It was a great way to pass the time before Legoland opened.

Ice cream!

Carter and his spiky hair - waiting for the big roller coaster. It was so much fun! We managed to ride it half a dozen times without waiting in too long of lines.

Bye bye pre-school

2011-07-26T13:38:00.000-07:00

As promised, here starts the first of many 'catch-up posts.' I've got a ton, so it may take me awhile, but I'm committed to capturing these memorable moments on our blog.

Carter's last day at Circle of Friends was the week before Memorial Day. They had a great end of the year singing program, and Carter did fabulously.

Kennedy and Carter before heading off to school

Pictures before show time

Carter and his buddy, Kannon. These two are great friends and really enjoyed being in class together this year.

Our dear Miss Michell - she was a great teacher, so sweet and encouraging. Carter learned a lot this year and continues to love school, so I'd say hats of to Miss Michell and the great program at Circle of Friends.

Where does the time go?

2011-07-23T02:40:00.000-07:00

It has always been my intention to keep this blog as a record of our family...somewhat of a electronic scrap book, as I've never been very good at keeping up with the real thing. Now it seems as if I'm neglecting this form, as well. I can't believe that the summer is half over and I've yet to post anything new. We've been busy and I've a list of at least 20 posts to catch up with it all. Unfortunately, we're having some trouble with our computer and the wireless connection, so we've been internet-less for over a week. (Thank heavens for iphones!) Although I'd love to post some pictures of all that we've been up to, I'm afraid a written review is all I have to offer. I'll add some pictures once the computer issue is resolved.

At the end of May, Carter finished up his time at Circle of Friends preschool. It was sad to say goodbye to teachers and friends, but it helped to know that Kennedy would be starting in the fall. They had a great end of the year "fun day" and singing program on the last day. Carter has grown and changed so much since he first started preschool...it really is amazing. He's reading on his own and doing wonderfully. This summer he's started to enjoy chapter books, which has been a lot of fun for all of us. I love to see his passion for reading, as it's something that brings me so much pleasure, as well. He made some great friends and was always well behaved in class. I think he loves to learn new things and took school seriously for that reason...it's a good thing, too, because at home he's silly all of the time. In fact, most of his poor choices come from him trying to be silly. Five has been a rough year for us in some ways, although I still will see glimpses of my sweet, loving boy. I know he's there, but some of time he's hidden in his attempt to be cool. I'm both nervous and excited to see what Kindergarten holds for him.

We started off the summer with an awesome vacation to San Diego (for Lego Land primarily, with a side trip to the beach) and then on to Phoenix. It was a terrific ten day trip and the kids had a blast. Both really enjoyed their time at Lego Land, and I'm glad that we started their 'theme park experience' there. It was a beautiful park, no long lines or big crowds but as a trade off the rides were geared towards the younger crowds. It's a park best for kids 5 and under, I'd say, although Carter and I managed to find all of the roller coasters and enjoyed those, too. Our week in Arizona was great. The weather was perfectly warm and sunny the entire seven days and we all needed it to dry out from our soggy spring. They kids loved swimming in the pool each day and were most content doing just that. During our stay we saw family, went mini golfing, saw a movie and swam, swam, swam. It was a great vacation and just what we needed.

We made our annual trip out to Cannon Beach to visit with the Sackman family. It was a beautifully sunny day and we all had a blast. We always leave wishing we had more time together, but are thankful for the opportunity to spend a great day at the beach together. We wished they lived closer!

Towards the end of June we had a wonderful week of VBS at church. This year's theme was Son Surf Beach Bash and the kids loved it. Kennedy was old enough to be in a group this year and did great. Thankfully my mom was here to help, staying with her for the majority of the time. It made me feel better, since she can be somewhat of a loose cannon and you never really know how she'll take to new situations. Thankfully it was a very positive experience for her. It was such an amazing week of faith and celebration with the kids. It was fun to watch them learn and experience the love of Jesus. Carter and Kennedy both learned a lot, loved the music and time of worship. I was fortunate to be a part of VBS, as well, and feel like I got as much out of the week as the children. It was awesome to see God at work, both with the leaders and the kids. It was a great week!

Nana made her annual trip up to Camas and it was such a help to have her with us. She is like the energizer bunny and never stops going...which was a tremendous blessing for me. The kids love having her with us and enjoyed their special outings together. Trips to the zoo, OMSI, Kids Club, swimming and the park were some of the highlights.

We celebrated Kennedy's 3rd birthday with a pink princess party. It was so much fun to put together and I couldn't have been happier with the way everything turned out. She was so very excited - waking up at 5:20 that morning, asking "me birthday party today?" She was giddy and seemed to enjoy every aspect of her party. It's so hard for me to believe that Kennedy is already 3. Yikes! My baby isn't so much of a baby anymore. She is equal parts sweet and sass...well maybe a little more sass. She is strong willed and determined and wants to do everything that Carter does. She's definitely not one to be left behind. She's shy with strangers, but otherwise talks non-stop. Her speech is progressing, but most people still have trouble understanding her. We'll continue to work on that. Kennedy loves her new big girl bed and enjoys playing in her room. She is very independent and can entertain herself for long periods of time. She loves imaginary play, both cooking in her kitchen and taking care of her baby dolls. She also loves to read, sing, dance, play outside, ride her bike and snuggle. She is finally potty trained and doing well with it (it was a nice incentive to have swimming lessons starting a few weeks before her birthday). We love our Miss K so much and know that God has blessed us with a spirited little girl who will hopefully grow up to do wonderful things. Our family certainly wouldn't be the same without her.

Along with the big events of the summer, both Carter and Kennedy are taking swim lessons and doing fabulously. They both passed their first sessions and moved up to the next level. Kennedy is fearless in the water, so we're happy for her to be receiving some formal instruction. Carter learned lots of new strokes and is so serious when it comes to learning in the pool. He works very hard and is improving quickly. Kennedy started gymnastics and loves it and Carter is taking golf lessons. He'll be starting soccer in a few weeks, as well.

And I was afraid we wouldn't have enough to do to keep us busy this summer!?!

Hoping to post pictures soon!

The Phelan Family

Golden Skate

Preschool Pajama Day

Brady is 1!

bowling fun

*update*

Snow Day

Special Day

2 wheel ridin'

Happy (half) Birthday!

{goals}

Happy New Year!

Hittin' the slopes

an adventure of sorts

Christmas Day 2011

Christmas Eve 2011

Twas the week before Christmas

Preschool Program

Christmas Crafting

It's like looking in the mirror...

Zoo Lights

North Pole Breakfast

A visit with Santa

o' Christmas tree, o' Christmas tree

The Advent Season

Thanksgiving in Boise

Circle of Friends Feast

{thankful}

Weekend in Arizona

Hat Day

First Tooth

Pinkalicious - The Musical!

Harvest Party

Halloween Traditions

then and now

Any Day Now...

Boo Bash

Feeling Festive for Fall

A Visit with Nana

School Days

Pumpkin Patch

Good wine, great friends!

back at it

pinkalicious baking

our little gymnast

Hakuna Matata

A Special Mommy Daughter Day

Birthday party fun

River Ride

Fun & Learning

Kicking off another soccer season

It doesn't seem so long ago...

Labor Day fun

highlights of summer

Eagle Crest 2011

finally...boating weather is here!

Princess Kennedy is 3!

4th of July Fun

Family Time

Cannon Beach & the Sackmans

Annual Arizona Trip

california kids

Land of a million Legos

Bye bye pre-school

Where does the time go?

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